Impacts of Technology on Family Relationships (Part 2)

科技与亲情(下)
Family Bonding with Technology(Part 2)

Bond with Family

嘿!大家好!《科技与亲情  ·下》终于可以和你们见面了!读到这里感到很疑惑的朋友们,请到上一个博客才从这里继续哦!我们在上一个科技与亲情所探讨的是如何适当地利用科技来增进家人之间的感情。今天,我们将探讨的是怎么可以有效的用科技来避免负面的影响和有健康亲子关系的重要性。

Hey! How’s everyone? Part 2 of family bonding with technology is finally here! If you’re feeling lost reading till here, do go over to part 1 of family bonding with technology before reading this blog! In part 2 of family bonding with technology, we’ll be touching on the topic on how to prevent negative impacts of technology as well as the importance of a healthy relationship!

健康亲子关系的重要性
Importance of a healthy relationship

Bond with Family

有一个健康、良好的亲子关系是极其重要的。

当我们面临什么问题或困难时,和家人谈了之后,问题总会比较容易解决。也因为从小家人就一直在我们的身边陪伴我们,能感受家庭的温暖是件非常幸福的事。

Family is important as they helps us in our mental growth and well-being. With a good family relationship, it is easier to solve our problems and conflicts as we feel more comfortable talking to our family members about it. Who doesn’t like to feel family warmth and loved right? Therefore, maintaining a good family relationship is very important. 

科技所带来的危害
Negative impacts of technology

Negative impacts of technology​
负面影响 #1: 上瘾 (太沉迷于游戏)Addiction 

有很多的年轻人都有打游戏,甚至沉迷于游戏世界中无法自拔。我就用王者荣耀这个游戏来当例子。王者荣耀是个可以多人一起玩的游戏。游戏目的是保护自己的基地。在这个游戏里有一种游戏模式叫做排位赛。有许多人因为想得到更高的等级,他们常常会花很多的时间“打王者”。也因为这样,人们和社会的距离也越来越远。

*打王者: 玩王者荣耀的简称

Games are a source of entertainment that many teenagers nowadays go to. An example of how games can become addictive is for instance, a gaming application Mobile Legends. It is a multiplayer game where players fight against opposing teams to protect their base. Players will be ranked according to their performance in the game. This competitive mode spurs players to strive for the highest rank and thus, more time will be spent on playing the game. 

负面影响 #2: 社交技能缺陷 Lack of Social Skills

当人们和社会的距离越来越远时,他们会慢慢的失去和别人在现实生活中社交的技能。许多时候,他们都不懂得怎么和别人相处。缺少社交技能带来的一个关键影响是去面试的时候会不知所措。

As teenagers start to be less active in the real world, they will start to find that they lack social skills and frequently do not know how to interact with people when meeting face-to-face. A very crucial impact the lack of social skills bring is when going for interviews.

负面影响 #3: 太依赖科技 Dependency on the Internet

现在有了像百度的搜索引擎,上网找资料时间非常容易的事。虽然他时间好事,但这也代表人们会渐渐的依赖网络,觉得一些知识是没有必要去学的。人们也因此慢慢的对这世间的事缺些了解。

Now that everything is so accessible with search engine platform like google, finding for information is so much easier. However, this also means that people are more reliant on the internet and don’t find the need to remember certain things.

抵抗危害的方法
Countering the impacts of technology

Tackle Impact of Technology
办法 #1: 家长监控(应用程序)Parental Control Application

我觉得父母可以做的是在孩子的手机中安装一个他们能控制孩子用多少手机的应用程序。能够决定孩子用手机的时间可哟解决孩子太过于沉迷手机的事件。

Something parents can do to limit their children is to install an application to control the amount of screen time their children have. Controlling the usage of internet will effectively curb the negative impacts of technology. Children will adhere to the time limit and hence not become addicted to the Internet. 

办法 #2: 教育 Educating

教育孩子怎么适当的用科技也是关键。尤其是在时间管理和不要太过依赖科技的这两个方面。

Another method is to educate children about the responsibilities and things to keep in mind when using the internet. Things like the importance of not being too reliant on technology and proper time management is extremely crucial!

办法 #3: 多带孩子们出去 Social Interaction

解决孩子缺乏社交技能的最直截了当的方法就是多带孩子们出去!不论是到朋友的家参加聚会还是外出用餐时都鼓励他们自己点餐,都能有效鼓励孩子们多和外面的世界进行交流。慢慢的,父母将可看到孩子们的转变——逐渐懂得怎么和别人相处。

The easiest and most straightforward way to develop social skills is to bring your child out! Whether is it bringing them to your friend’s house and have them interact with their kids or encouraging them to order food at restaurants, they can improve social skills by communicating with other people. Gradually, you’ll see that they are more comfortable with speaking.

虽然科技带给我们的伤害有很多,但如果人们都知道怎么适当的使用科技带个我们的方便,那这些危害都是可以避免的。父母是教会我们怎么走路、认字和教会我们正确价值观的人。在科技方面,我觉得父母有的责任也很重大,我觉得父母应该限定孩子使用手机的时间,知道孩子们够成熟后,明白事理了之后,才让孩子自己处理。

While there may be many cons that technology can bring to us, it can be prevented if people are properly educated on the harm that technology can bring. In my opinion, I think that parents really play a big role in a kid’s life. Since young, our parents are the ones who were there to correct us whenever we do something wrong, taught us how to walk, read and the proper values that we need to learn. Likewise, for technology, proper limitations should be set up until they can fully trust that their kids are already mature enough to know how to control themselves!

如有任何关于科技和亲子的问题和意见,请在下面的留言!

希望你喜欢我的科技与亲情上和下!那我们就在下一个博客见咯!^_^

If you have any ideas or questions on what other ways technology can bring harm or how technology can affect family relationships, do comment down below and let me know! 

Hope you liked my Part 1 & 2 of technology with family bonding!
Hope to see you again at my next blog! ^_^

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